Since engi update, while i’m hosting people getting desynch and disconnected from my games, for my last game i’ve been with 3 different teams.
I usualy avoid hosting myself, i play on private when i need certains maps, some of my friends with same internet have the same problem and we cannot play together which was possible 5 months ago.
I know of your struggle. My best option is the up to** 24Mbps down and up to** 1Mbps up but I usually lock around these numbers and I have the exact same problem. I host and either on first horde or a tad later everyone flies away.