This post won’t add anything new to the discussion. I’m just sharing my own story.
I’m a North American player. I play this game for the challenge. I take joy in mastering all sorts of different weapons, overcoming their weaknesses and learning how to win with them.
This is a story of my experience with one particular Asian server player.
A few weeks ago, I played with someone on my friends list who I understood as being a Chinese meta player who usually plays with people on Asia servers. I have nothing against him, he’s nice guy and clearly good at the game. It was me, him, another mutual Darktide acquaintance (North American) and one of their friends.
I brought a “fun” veteran build (weapon specialist, infinite-cleave bleed double-barrel build with shout+kraks) that a friend showed me. If you’ve ever played the build and practiced it a bit, you’d know that this is actually quite a good Havoc 40 build, even in Rotten armor.
The game started, and immediately two of them died, including the Chinese player friend, then the third person died a bit later. Maybe it was cross-server latency or something, who knows. I was the last one alive, and I almost clutched it and ended up with 3x as many kills and damage. I got “skill issue”-d at the end due to a mistake near the revives.
After the game was over, I was politely asked to play something more meta. They were helping their friend climb to 40, they explained to me. Fair enough. I get it. I switched to bubble + trauma psyker, we won… but I found it extremely boring to play. I almost fell asleep even though it was Havoc 40.
So, I excused myself and left the party, after the 1 victory.
It turns out that the Asian player was streaming, so I checked out the VOD to see how everyone died. What I ended up witnessing was the 3 friends blaming me in their Discord Voice chat for not bringing ranged damage and fulfilling the “role” of ranged vet. While they were dead and spectating me.
They also nitpicked aspects of my build, which, quite honestly, showed that they simply didn’t understand how the build works. Which was very, very sad to see, because they wouldn’t realize how wrong some of their claims were if they had tried using other weapons.
What the Asian players are saying in this forum thread explains so much, regarding their definition of what “viable” means and their opinions on balance. In my story, my teammates blamed me because they were very used to playing a certain way, and I wasn’t meeting their expectation. They weren’t blaming me for not being skilled. They just like playing their 1 style of gameplay over and over — because it’s the most consistent way of winning — and I was ruining that for them.
But here’s the thing: That way of playing is simply not for me. And I think a lot of people would agree.
I absolutely HATE playing with people who hyper-fixate around “specialization”, especially in a game like Darktide where 99% of my fun is in being self-sufficient and overcoming impossible odds. The idea that the veteran needs to be the “ranged enemy deleter”, psyker needs to be horde clear and bubble spammer, zealot needs to provide gold toughness, etc. I think that’s boring and lacking imagination. Maybe this is just me being North American, but: needing other people to perform at their peak as a precondition for you to do well (and win!) is a “loser” mentality. No offense.
Personally, I only need teammates who are: (1) not obnoxious to be around, and (2) are trying their best within their means. Meta-chasing at the build level is not what I’m looking for in a video game. I’m actually happy when I don’t play with 3 super pro players, because it means I get to practice more… even if I end up losing.
I just avoid playing with that friend group now. I’m sure they’re also happy to not play with me.
I actually think some of them are taking a break because they are bored with the game which I find very ironic. It’s quite sad because I think they’re nice guys, but ultimately I think we just have unresolvable differences about how to have fun.