Taking your medicine (even when unfair) and humbly waiting for a rescue or saying “nt” when it doesn’t happen is a good character building opportunity.
Honestly not trying to be snarky here, I am just like you in that 10+ pickups are often on my scoreboard and sometimes I wondered why I bothered saving someone so many times when they can’t be bothered to get the net off me the one time it does happen, but then I remember b/c it’s a game and it’s fun to save the day. Most importantly- the dude probably isn’t leaving the net on me because they’re malicious.