Kicked out of mission when playing together

We’re two in this house who plays but everytime we enter a mission together one or both of us gets disconnected or the loadingscreen with the characters and the ship gets stuck and I have to force the game closed.

We’ve maybe been able to play 1 out of 10 games last week where we don’t disconnect and have to reconnect or in some cases can’t get back into the game.

It happens on all missions as far as we can tell.

We get as far as klicking ready for the mission
We either get stuck on the loadingscreen with the ship and the planet in the background. If this happens we usually get the option to reconnect. (usually far from always)
OR we get stuck watching the characters sit in the ship. But the ogryn just counts one finger over and over again. If this happens we have to crash the game to get out.

Both of us are playing from steam

and

Allt the time, moring, evening, night.

Happens very often

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Forgot to add that this does not seem to happen when playing alone. At least not to the same extent at all.