And yet here you are answering in kind, laying the problem you see on him and his way to express himself.
We can’t go around tone policing everyone. Just the same as we can’t demand that they agree to our point of view.
While he might said it in a crude way his opinion holds merit. Just because you disagree with it and the way he said it doesn’t mean me can just discard it out of hand.
The fact is that we have on our hands a generation that is much more sensitive then those that came became before it.
They have held protests in schools against words and demanded a ban on certain opinions for crying out loud. If we indulge them they will never learn and the rest of ous will have to suffer the consequences of a game where any emotional reaction can risk a punishment.
Some people get angry when playing video games, some voice that anger. That’s good for them. It’s an outlet, sometimes the only one they have.
And some people like to mess around with other people. That’s also fine. Pranking is ok as long as no one gets hurt. If all you lost was your time and your ego, then it’s okay .
If we needed everyone to feel nothing but happiness at the end of a game then competitive games would all be at fault. Because in them there’s always a loser. Someone annoyed and let down because another player. And that’s okay.
If we find ourselves in a position where one person is all ways doing it against ous then a blacklist is the best option. A few clicks and he can never do it again. You can lock yourself out from the players that offend you and leave them to those that can take it.
And guess what? That’s also OK